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Donna's avatar

Anna, you have captured exactly the dilemma of women in the church as well as the inability of men to perceive our dilemma. "It is not good for man to be alone." And that aloneness was not problematic simply in terms of human companionship, but also in terms of "correspondence." God made woman of the same "stock" (imago Dei) as man so she would be able to communicate with him. He also made her different enough (taking away something of him to create her) to enable her to counter him, to show him a different point of view. Male scholars and leaders seem unable to translate "different" in any other way than hierarchical and in so doing deprive themselves of the remedy God provided for their primary deficiency. In fact, they are acting out that deficiency. It is a huge loss to that pastor and his congregation that he would not listen to you. And very frustrating.

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Beth Austin's avatar

Anna, I can't tell you how much I appreciate your work - and the fact that you are sharing it here. I haven't commented before, but eagerly read each of your posts as they hit my inbox. I was raised Baptist, but am currently a member of the OPC. TBH this very topic of male and female in church and in theology is my John 6 "hard saying" issue. The theology as it is understood and taught, and the church culture that is built up around it hurts people. But I am compelled with Peter to coness, "Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of life."

When I read what you have to say, it's as if you are examining and answering the scattered questions, accusations, and protests that have littered my ruminations on the topic for most of my life. I have T-charts written down during my angsty teens and twenties that catalog the elements of the male/good and female/not good dichotomy you discuss in this particular post. My husband gently cautions me not to let abuses of God's design cause me to reject the design itself. But, it's not just behaviors that are clearly abuses that bother me. It's that on an existential level, what I have experienced as a female believer is that I am the "not-good" foil to the male "good" reflection of God. My unwillingness to just let go of the issue and trust that God has His reasons is that my soul - my humanity - screams that there has to be more to it. Either we are missing a vital aspect of the design in our teaching, the restoration of which will restore and broaden our understanding of female dignity, or the design for male and female that we have been taught is itself wrong.

Thank you for your deep, Biblical thinking on the topic and your willingness to follow the evidence even when it takes you into "novel" territory. We the church need you (whether some of us realize it or not!)

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